Counselling Services

WELCOME TO SOUTH ISLAND SCHOOL COUNSELLING SERVICE

Our school offers students two qualified counselors who visit the school regularly. They are from: 

St John's Counselling Service (SJCS) provides our school with a fully trained counsellor who is trained to work with adolescents and behavioural issues. Students are able to receive support individually or in small groups. The service offers students ways of tackling such areas as self-esteem, anger management, communication skills and adolescent depression. They want to help others to help themselves. (Website: http://www.sjcshk.com)

Hong Kong Children & Youth Services (HKCYS) provides us a registered social worker, Miss Kamy Yeung. She enjoys working with adolescents and finds that everyone has the strengths to grow up. She believes that "the problem is not a problem but the coping is."(from Virginia Satir) and hopes to work together with people to find more choices in their lives. Apart from casework counselling, she also offers groups and programs like We-Serve community service Team, Anti-Drug Force Group, Obsessed Anti-cyber-bullying Group and various community services to the students. (Website: http://www.cys.org.hk)

Contacting the counselor / School social worker

You can either talk to your Tutor or House Head to make an appointment with the school social worker or counsellor. Self referral can also be made by contacting them directly. Parents are welcome to contact them for consultations or referrals. 

Miss Jackie Li (School Counsellor from SJCS) is available in school on Thursdays. You can also reach her at 2525-7207 (SJCS) or 2240-6703 (direct line at SIS) or send her email at jackie@sjcshk.com

Miss Kamy Yeung (School Social Worker from HKCYS) is available in school on Tuesdays & Fridays. You can also reach her at 2761-1106 (HKCYS) or 2240-6703 (direct line at SIS) or send her email at: counsellor@mail.sis.edu.hk  OR  kyeung@mail.sis.edu.hk

School Office: Counsellor’s Room (located just above the Foyer & at the end of Refectory, G/F of D Block)

School Counselling Information

What is counselling?

When you come for counselling, you have a chance to talk about whatever is going on for you, whether you have problems regarding home or school, or simply want to talk to and seek advice from. The counsellor will listen to you in a non-judgmental way and help you focus on the issues more clearly. S/he will respect your values, lifestyle and culture, and will work to help you make your own decisions, so that you feel stronger and more in control of your life.

Why see a counsellor?

Counselling, both individual and group, is helpful for a range of issues, such as:

  •     Anger Management
  •     Bullying
  •     Courtship problems
  •     Depression
  •     Eating disorders
  •     Family problems
  •     Grief over the loss of someone special
  •     Health Worries
  •     Isolation
  •     Physical, sexual or emotional abuse
  •     Relationship problems
  •     Stress
  •     Self-esteem

Coming to see a counsellor is a positive step in trying to overcome your difficulties. Everyone has problems at points in their life, when they may need some professional support to help them through.

Confidentiality

All our work with students is confidential. Sometimes it is helpful that we agree to share some information with teaching staff and your parents in order to get you the support you might need, this is always done with your permission.

In rare circumstances, we may be required to widen confidentiality, when there appears to be a serious risk to your own or others' safety. In these circumstances, we would normally seek to speak to you first before contacting anyone else.

How to make an appointment

Please contact your Tutor or Head of House / Head of Family / Family Administrator.  If you prefer total privacy, you can just contact the School Social Worker or School Counsellor directly to make an appointment.

What if I cannot come to attend

You should be responsible for getting to your scheduled appointment on time. If you need to cancel, please let us know in advance either by telling your Tutor or Family Administrator or by sending us an email as soon as possible and no later than 8am on the morning of your appointment.  It will help us re-arrange meetings with other student in need. You may reschedule another appointment.

Support for parents

If your child is receiving counselling, you can help them by:

  • Respecting their privacy and the confidential nature of counselling
  • Try not to intrude on their experience but let them know you are available if they need to talk
  • Limit your advice and guidance by encouraging your child to express what their feelings, needs and goals are
  • Praise and encourage their strength in seeking help

Please feel free to contact our School Social Worker or School Counsellor if you require any help.  

If your child is not receiving counselling in school but you as parents feel you need help, you may check the resources from some non-government organizations or private counseling service centres for assistance. (Please refer to the Resources List below).

HONG KONG RESOURCES (updated at August 2012)

Name of Organizations

Enquiry (E) 24-hr Hotline (H)

Websites or Remarks

For Counselling Hotlines & Services

Social Welfare Department Hotline

2343-2255 (24H)

www.swd.gov.hk (may search lists of different social services in HK)                                              

Email: swdenq@swd.gov.hk

The Samaritans HK - 24-Hotline & Befriending Email

2896-0000 (24H) (multi-languages)

www.samaritans.org.hk

Email: jo@samaritans.org.hk

KELY Support Group Youth Helpline

2338-5777 (H)

www.kely.org

Email: help@kely.org

Mutual Aid: HKCSS Helpline

1878-668 (24H)

http://www.hkcss.org.hk/1878668//

(Chinese Only)

Against Child Abuse

2755-1122 (24H)

www.aca.org.hk               

Email:webmaster@aca.org.hk

ReSource The Counselling Centre Ltd.

2523-8979 (E)

www.resourcecounselling.org                            

Email: enq@resourcecounselling.org

St. John's Counselling Service

2525-7207/08 (E)

www.sjcshk.com

Email: info@sjcshk.com

Therapy Associates (HK) Ltd.

2869-1962 (E)

www.talhk.com

Email: tal@talhk.com

Green Pastures Whole Person Development Centre

2771-1370 (E)

www.greenpastures.com.hk

Email: enquiries@greenpastures.com.hk

Centre on Behavioural Health (HKU)

2589-0500 (E)

http://cbh.hku.hk

Email: bhealth@hku.hk

Hong Kong Moods Disorder Centre (CUHK)

2833-0838 (E)
 

www.hmdc.med.cuhk.edu.hk

Email: hmdc@cuhk.edu.hk                  

For Sex-related, Physical & Mental Health issues

The Family Planning Association 2572-2222 (H) www.famplan.org.hk
Mother's Choice 2868-2022 (E) www.motherschoice.com
Mental Health Association of HK 2772-0047 (H)
(Chinese Only)
www.mhahk.org.hk
Psychiatric Service Hotline, The Hospital Authority 2466-7350 (H) * For consultation on mental health or psychiatric conditions.
Adolescent Medical Centre,
Queen Elizabeth Hospital
2958-6443 (E) * A comprehensive health care to aged 12 -19 adolescents by a multi-disciplinary team.

H.K. Eating Disorders Association

2144-5757 (E)

www.heda-hk.org

Email: head@heda-hk.org

H.K. Eating Disorders Center, CUHK

2144-5838 (E)

www.hedc.med.cuhk.edu.hk (Chinese Only)

For Drugs / Alcohol / Smoking / Gambling Problems

Narcotics Division, Security Bureau 2366-8822 (H)
(Anti-drug)
www.nd.gov.hk
Families Anonymous 8100-5584 (E) * An international network of support group for drugs / alcohol problems
Smoking Counselling and Cessation Centre, Hospital Authority

2300-7272
 

Email: haquitsmoking@ha.org.hk

Youth Quitline on Smoking
(HKU)

2855-9557(E)

www.hku.hk/yquit (Chinese Only)

 Email: quitnowhk@gmail.com

Youth Wellness Centre (HKFYG)               

2465-2828 (E)
 

www.hkfyg.org.hk/eng/ycs/ywc.html

Email: ywc@hkfyg.org.hk

Centre for Internet Addiction (HKFYG)

2788-3444 (H)

www.hkfyg.org.hk/eng/ycs/InternetAddiction.html

Email: net@hkfyg.org.hk

Online New Page: Online Addiction Counselling Centre (HKCS)

2561-0363 (H)
 

www.hkcs.org/gcb/icys/prog/online/stop-e.html

Email: online@hkcs.org

WORLD WIDE RESOURCES

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Web sites

General information on mental health issues www.youngminds.org.uk www.mind.org.uk/Information
Support for people experiencing depression www.depressionalliance.org
All information on handling eating disorders www.b-eat.co.uk
www.nationaleatingdisorders.org
All topics related to young people such as bullying, peers, family …etc. www.reachout.com.au/home.asp
How to get out of an abusive relationship www.ndvh.org
Action on Smoking and Health www.ash.org.uk
Centre for Online & Internet Addiction www.netaddiction.com
For Gambling Problems www.gamblersanonymous.org.uk
To help people out of porn & sex addiction www.porn-free.org
International website of this support group for people or their family members with drugs or alcohol problems www.familiesanonymous.org

Recommended Book Lists:

Books for Teens Issues

  1. Andrew Matthews. Making Friends. Australia: Seashell, 1991.
  2. Andrew Matthews. Being A Happy Teen. Australia: Seashell, 2001.
  3. Coloroso, Barbara. The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander. New York: Harper Collins, 2003.
  4. Cornelius, Helena & Shoshana Faire. Everyone Can Win: How to Resolve Conflict. Australia: Simon & Schuster, 1990.
  5. Covey, Sean. The 7 habits of Highly Effective Teens. New York: Fireside,1998.
  6. Covey, Sean. The 6 Most Important Decisions You'll Eever Make. NY: Fireside, 2006.
  7. Earl Hipp. Feed Your Head: Some Excellent Stuff on Being Yourself. US: Hazelden, 1991.

Books on Parenting

  1. Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish. How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk. NY: Perennial Currents, reprinted in 2004.
  2. Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish. How to Talk So Teens Will Listen & Listen So Teens Will Talk. NY: HarperCollins, 2005.
  3. Covey, Stephen R. The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families. U.K.: Simon & Schuster, 1999.
  4. Dorothy Law Nolte & Rachel Harris. Children Learn What They Live: Parentinhg to inspire values. NY: Workman,1998.
  5. Rod Wallace Kennedy, PhD. The Encouraging Parent. NY: Three Rivers Press, 2001.

Books on Character Education & Positive Thinking

  1. Andrew Matthews. Follow Your Heart. Australia: Seashell, 1999.
  2. Andrew Matthews. Happiness NOW! Australia: Seashell, 2005
  3. Brooks, Robert B & Sam Goldstein. The Power of Resilience: achieving balance, confidence, and personal strength in your life. U.S.: McGraw-Hill, 2004.
  4. Urban, Hal. Life's Greatest Lessons: 20 Things that Matter (4th Edition). U.S.: Fireside, 2002.
  5. Urban, Hal. Choices That Change Lives. New York: Fireside, 2006.